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Monday, June 6th, 2016
12:39 pm - End-of-Spring Roundup
Ok, so I'm not keeping up with the writing. I'm not sure if it's because I'd gotten used to no one caring what I had to say, or if I feel like my thoughts just aren't worth sharing. My life is really boring... I may ask for help with short writing assignments.


We're heading into month 4. I had a few interviews (which I really thought I nailed!) and no callbacks. I've had several online "assessment tests" and I realized I really need to start studying more. I asked the internet universe for advice in transitioning to another career and got a lot of good study nuggets. My brain feels like it's about to explode most days. Add in the confusion, frustration and feelings of worthlessness, and you've got a very frazzled girl. I'm trying not to admit how down the whole thing has got me.


I got a mild break over Memorial Day weekend when one of my favorite aunts offered me a family heirloom: the wooden rocking chair that my great grandmother used to rock my grandfather in. It was a whirlwind trip across the state with very little family time, but visiting my family always makes me feel rejuvenated.


Our place flooded back in April. After 2 weeks of inspectors and assessments, the only work done: The owner decided to install a tankless water heater. Wonderful to have, but there's massive drywall work to be done here!


Celebrated a friend's birthday with him, but more importantly it was my first foray into painting again. My mom gave me an oil set and I experimented for the first time by painting miniature portraits of his pets. Re-emerging in the creative arts is a validation, but more of a way to get it out of my system. Henna, done. Painting, done. Graphic design, in progress as always. Sewing... eh, not so much. I'm a bridesmaid in his wedding this fall so I've got my work cut out for me in the coming months! More chances to flex my creativity.


And my gorgeous tomato plant got the blight and is pretty much dead. Nothing like investing so much time to have your efforts torn down in no time.


My plans for the future: STUDY STUDY STUDY!~ Languages, web, coding, etc. A trip to the TWC office to discuss. A trip to the post office for returns. Selling my junk on CL. Visiting Kat while she's in town. Finding a curio cabinet to fit my space. And of course, find a job!

current mood: indescribable

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Friday, June 3rd, 2016
5:22 pm - Keep your spirits up, Jen
I really thought I nailed today's interview. It would have been perfect: new space, close to home, great environment, big name credentials on my resume...

I have no doubt whoever they picked was more qualified than I, but still, I'm absolutely heartbroken, so much more than I should be.

current mood: pessimistic

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Wednesday, May 25th, 2016
10:15 am - Watch it, learn from it.
White Like Me - Tim Wise

current mood: frustrated

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Wednesday, April 27th, 2016
1:26 pm - Fear
I used to think I was fearless. I would skydive, jump off cliffs, try strange foods, wear ethnic clothing out, anything anyone asked or dared me to do. It's only in recent years that I've noticed just how afraid I am, really. Fear has kept me from exploring career opportunities, trying new software, expanding my henna business, etc.. To make matters worse, it's starting to depress me. I don't know when or how this started.

I think it's a fear of rejection, or failure, and I'm not quite sure how to overcome it. I've got a small army of supporters who cheer me on constantly, but I haven't been able to overcome this paralysis. I'm trying to take baby steps and go back to basics: sketching, writing, experimenting. I've never been good with discipline, and I suppose it's time to work on that as well.

I need Madam Leota in my corner yelling at me:

current mood: scared

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Tuesday, April 26th, 2016
1:13 pm - Declawing your Cat.
Don't fucking do it, ever.

Also, support the Paw Project and their quest to enact national legislation banning this cruel practice.

current mood: angry

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Friday, April 22nd, 2016
12:48 pm - Henna is magic.
Henna is always magical to me; it's still as mysterious and enchanting as the first time I mixed it, applied it, and viewed the glorious stain the next day. The very talented Monique Herzig of alchemy in Ferndale, MI completely captures this ethereal feeling in her video. If I had any kind of photography skill I would make my own video.

current mood: artistic

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Friday, April 15th, 2016
10:08 am - They have a quiz for everything now...

What Should You Have for Breakfast? | PlayBuzz

current mood: hungry

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Monday, April 4th, 2016
10:57 am - Finding my voice again...
Well, I've finally hit it: a change in my life that I should have expected and actually hoped would happen (though not like this.) My department was eliminated at work.

I spent the first few days mourning and doing housework in between working on my resume (though it took me another week to finish 3 of them with cover letter and portfolio. I've never had problems writing about anything, just myself it seems; it's always like pulling teeth. This particular extraction was grueling and awful, and I couldn't have done it without a little help from my friends. ♪) I spent the Second week finding jobs and identifying the ones I wanted the most. More housework to delay the inevitable...

By the third week I knew I had to start getting serious and by end of the week I had applied to my top 3 jobs, plus 3 others. I went into Easter weekend feeling supremely confident that I would recieve a call in no time! Reveling in that confidence, I spent most of the fourth week enjoying myself apparently. I only applied to one job. But I also didn't hear anything. From anyone. I started to get nervous....

So here it is, the start of the fifth week. Four weeks ago I was laid off, and I still don't have a job. Or any calls.

I've never not been without work, so this is a very strange experience thus far. My father has graciously given me a kit he was given when he had to transition careers, and it's given me some food for thought. Perhaps it's time to change, though the dilemma for me has always been the same: I don't know what I will do that will make me happy or what I will like. I don't particularly enjoy graphic design any more than I enjoyed floristry. I like being creative, and I like solving technical problems. And I like research. Translating that into a paying career is going to be the hard part.

A few articles I read indicate that you should keep a schedule while unemployed, it's supposed to help fight off depression and keep you from falling into sloth by being productive. Part of that, I think, will be for me to take up writing again. I always think better when I do.

current mood: confused

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Monday, June 1st, 2015
8:00 pm - Just Because (Happy Memories)

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Sunday, August 17th, 2014
8:51 am - Awesome Mix, Vol. 1
Just press play, and listen.


current mood: energetic

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Friday, July 25th, 2014
11:29 am - Secret Wishes
Him:   "You need a spa day when this is all over, complete with manicure, pedicure and massage, too."

Me (weakly):  "No, it's ok, I'll be fine."

(In my head I'm secretly jumping for joy at the mere thought of it, hoping it comes true.)

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Thursday, June 19th, 2014
12:32 pm - Taking a moment to dream...
It's a low-ish day today and I really need a happy thought, so I thought I'd take a few moments to dream a bit...

If money were no object, I would:

  • Pay off my debt.

  • Remodel my condo.

  • Go back to school for a career change.

  • Send money to my grandmother and aunt.

  • Enjoy regular spa days.

  • Find clothes that actually fit and flatter me.

  • Set up savings for my niece and nephew.

  • Send flowers/gifts regularly to everyone I love.

  • Eat out / eat healthier more.

  • Hire a personal trainer.

  • Travel for pleasure, or to visit relatives.

...ran out of ideas, I'm sure there are more. It's a curious thing, trying to understand what will make you happy and give you fulfillment in your life. I have a feeling I'll end up spending the rest of my life trying to figure it out.


Speaking of happy, I've met someone very special. He seems to be almost exactly like me, down to the smallest nuance. Like a mirror...

I'm *strongly* reminded of a quote from Eat, Pray, Love:

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.
A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake.
A soul mate's purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life..”

current mood: down

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Tuesday, March 4th, 2014
12:01 pm - A series of funnies to brighten the day...

current mood: accomplished

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Friday, February 21st, 2014
7:52 pm - Relevant Poetry of the Day
The papers are signed,
Dotted every "i",
After weeks of paperwork and waiting.

Now it is real,
And bought for a steal,
And ready for some personal updating.

It still feels like a dream.
What a wonderful team
Of people who helped me in my negotiations..

But with my key in the door
I am a renter no more;
This, I never thought to achieve.
But now, I can finally relax and believe…

My little place is officially mine.

current mood: Major Event-ed

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Thursday, February 6th, 2014
9:52 pm - No matter how bad things get..
I always laugh at this:

(Tiny kitten beers)
From Pictures for Sad Children http://www.ohnorobot.com/archive.pl?comic=1924

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Monday, June 3rd, 2013
12:51 pm - Status Update

No, I'm not dead. Yes, 2013 hasn't been a good year for me.
Hence the lack of posts.

Fear not, I'm finding my zen. I'm counting my blessings. I'm rethinking my priorities. I'm (trying) to cultivate my passions.

In other words, I'm living.

And listening to a lot of audiobooks.

current mood: stressed

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Friday, April 5th, 2013
10:42 am - Cookie Monster's Famous Cookie Dough 001

Straight out of my childhood. Every member of my family will attest to this: I made this, and made this often. The recipe, surprisingly, works. It made me happy to see this again.

Complete directions here with results:

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Friday, October 19th, 2012
4:47 pm - We Are Legion - The Story of the Hacktivists
Watch it. Learn from it. 

current mood: righteous

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Wednesday, September 26th, 2012
4:56 pm - Just. Awesome. I want to be her....

" My attitude and thoughts and actions have more value in them than my body because I recognize that this body is just going to become ash in the end, so why fuss about it? When I die, no one is going to remember what I looked like, heck, my kids will forget my voice, and slowly, all physical memory will fade away. However, my impact and legacy will remain: and, by not focusing on the physical beauty, I have time to cultivate those inner virtues and hopefully, focus my life on creating change and progress for this world in any way I can. "

Reddit Users Attempt to Shame Sikh Woman, Get Righteously Schooled

current mood: inspired

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Tuesday, August 21st, 2012
9:28 pm - One more thing...
This damn thing works!

Also, I think I've found my new henna pattern:

current mood: tired

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